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Risa: Imagine you'll be eating dinner at your Japanese friend's home. How can you use polite table manners? こんにちは。りさです. Risa here. Anyone can learn how to politely eat a meal in Japan. In this lesson, you'll learn how. Ben is sitting at a dining table with Taichi and his mother. Let's watch!
Taichi's mother: さぁ、どうぞ。食べて。
Ben and Taichi: いただきます。
Ben: みそしる、おいしいです。
Taichi's mother: よかった。
Taichi's mother: ベンくん、ごはん茶わんを持って、食べてね。
Ben: あ、はい。
Now with English translation.
Taichi's mother: Go ahead and eat.
Ben and Taichi: Thank you for the food!
Ben: The miso soup is really good.
Taichi's mother: Good to hear!
Taichi's mother: Ben, try holding the bowl as you eat.
Ben: Ah, okay.
Risa: Here are the key words and phrases you need.
Ben: いただきます。
Risa: いただきます。
Alisha: I will start eating. (lit: I will receive.)
Risa: いただきます。, いただきます。, いただきます。
Ben: みそ汁
Risa: みそ汁
Alisha: miso soup
Risa: みそ汁, みそ汁, みそ汁
Ben: おいしい
Risa: おいしい
Alisha: delicious
Risa: おいしい, おいしい, おいしい
Ben: ごはん
Risa: ごはん
Alisha: cooked rice, meal
Risa: ごはん, ごはん, ごはん
Ben: 茶わん
Risa: 茶わん
Alisha: rice bowl, tea cup
Risa: 茶わん, 茶わん, 茶わん
Ben: 持つ
Risa: 持つ
Alisha: to hold, to carry, to possess
Risa: 持つ, 持つ, 持つ
Ben: よい
Risa: よい
Alisha: good, well
Risa: よい, よい, よい
Ben: ごはん茶わん
Risa: ごはん茶わん
Alisha: rice bowl
Risa: ごはん茶わん, ごはん茶わん, ごはん茶わん
Key Phrases
Risa: Here are the key phrases from the scene.
Alisha: In the scene, what did Ben say to start eating?
Ben: いただきます。
Risa: いただきます。いただきます。いただきます。
Alisha: This phrase is a greeting used before you eat. It comes from the verb...
Risa: いただく
Alisha: which means "to get" or "to take" something from someone of a higher status than you. This phrase can express your gratitude for receiving the food. Before you start to eat any meal at a home or a restaurant, you should say...
Risa: いただきます
Alisha: Well-mannered Japanese people even say quietly when they eat alone!
Alisha: Now you try! Say Ben's line.
Taichi's mother: さぁ、どうぞ。食べて。
Ben: いただきます。
Alisha: How did Taichi's mother respond to Ben's compliment?
Taichi's mother: よかった。
Risa: よかった。よかった。よかった。
Alisha: This is equivalent to the "that’s good" or "great" that you would say when you hear something good.
Risa: よかった
Alisha: is the past tense of
Risa: いい
Alisha: or
Risa: よい
Alisha: meaning "good".
Risa: いい
Alisha: is the colloquial form of
Risa: よい
Alisha: and it's used in the simple non-past form in casual conversations, as in…
Risa: 天気がいい
Alisha: “the weather is good.”
Risa: いい本
Alisha: “good book”
Alisha: For the other forms, it conjugates in the same way as...
Risa: よい
Alisha: conjugates. So,
Risa: よかった
Alisha: is the past tense of
Risa: いい or よい
Alisha: and it literally means "it was good." When you hear good news, you can say…
Risa: よかった
Alisha: …to mean "good to hear."
Alisha: Now you try! Say Taichi's mother's line after Ben's compliment.
Ben: みそしる、おいしいです。
Taichi's mother: よかった。

Lesson focus

Risa: Now, the lesson focus. Here's how to politely eat a meal in Japan.
Alisha: A typical Japanese meal at home consists of rice, miso soup, a main dish and side dishes. It is typically laid out with the rice bowl placed by your left hand, and the soup bowl placed by your right hand.
Alisha: There's a Japanese word for a set of rice, miso soup, and three dishes.
Risa: 一汁三菜 (いちじゅう さんさい)
Alisha: Traditionally, it's said that this kind of set is a well-balanced meal.
Alisha: Do you know what order you should eat these things in?
Alisha: The traditionally polite way of eating is not to keep eating one thing until you finish it. Instead, you should try to move from dish to dish only eating one bite of each before alternating. The goal is to generally eat everything at the same pace.
Alisha: Many people don't know that it's good manners to hold the bowl when you eat rice or miso soup.
Alisha: Put your thumb on the edge of a bowl, and use the other fingers under the bottom to hold it.
Alisha: Leaving the bowl on the table and hunching over when you eat rice is not good manners in Japan.
Alisha: Also, you shouldn't put your mouth on the bowl and shovel rice into your mouth.
Alisha: However, when you have miso soup, you can put your mouth on the bowl and sip soup directly without using a spoon.
Risa: Now it's time to practice your new ability.
Alisha: You’re at your friend's home, and you're going to have dinner with their family. Ready? Here we go.
Alisha: Dinner is ready, and it's time to start eating. What do you say?
Risa: いただきます。
Alisha: You brought some fruit as a small gift to the family, and they were served at dinner. Your friend said that he really liked the fruit. How do you respond?
Risa: よかった。
Alisha: Great job!
Risa: いただきます。
Risa: よかった。


Risa: よくできました! Now, watch the scene one more time. After that, you're ready to enjoy a typical Japanese meal at home! じゃまたね!


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September 17th, 2021 at 11:47 AM
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Hi Abrielle,

Thank you for your comment!

ん sounds "m", "n" or even "ng" depending on the word.

However, they are all ん sound for us and we even don’t aware of the difference.

Please check this lesson and you will find how it happens😉


Please let us know if you have any further question:)



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September 17th, 2021 at 08:57 AM
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I don't think I understand.

Is "ん" pronounced like an English m or n?



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August 16th, 2020 at 03:53 PM
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Hi Rachel,

Thank you for posting!

All your sentences are correct.

Please just be careful when to say 俺達, as it should be very casual situation:)

Thank you for learning Japanese with us😄



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August 10th, 2020 at 01:07 AM
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July 17th, 2020 at 04:50 AM
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こんにちは Zachariさん

コメントありがとうございます。Thank you for your comment. Indeed, it is not yet added. I will forward your message to our team! Hopefully it will be added soon. :)

Wishing you good luck with your Japanese,

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Zachary Chen
July 12th, 2020 at 02:31 AM
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Hello, I just found that the line to line pronunciation does not work since Mastering Japanese: Level 1 lesson 70. I click the music icon near the sentence but it does not play.

Could you fix it?

Besides, could you add slow version of sentences for class after 70, just like what they are in the early classes.

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May 27th, 2020 at 06:49 PM
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Ulysses Chさん

Thank you so much for your comment😄

It really depends on the family now, so you will find both types of families: those following and not following.

Please let us know if you have any questions :)



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Ulysses Ch
May 23rd, 2020 at 12:00 PM
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Just wondering, do Japanese families in big cities in Japan (like Tokyo and Osaka) still generally enforce those "table manners" to the details?

April 15th, 2019 at 08:33 AM
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Hi George,

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Cristiane (クリスチアネ)

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April 8th, 2019 at 06:37 AM
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This was a really good video!

Although Adrimal Yamamoto (in that movie) told his son that the pickles are for towards the end of the meal.

Also, I like to deal with the Miso suru first because it's better hot and it will get cold.

I guess that's why sometimes they come with lids but not so much in America.

All in all, I learned a lot.

Arigatou Gozaimashita!