Best friends with a person you’ve never met in real life?
The arrival of social networks and e-mail enabled cellphones brought a new phenomenon to Japan, the merutomo (e-mail friend). People find new friends, but sometimes you can even find your soulmate! Find out what kind of friendship is developing in this story!
We’re learning an important grammar point, both which involve the particle no being used as a nominalizer. We’ll take a look at how to nominalize Japanese verbs (similar to a gerund in English), and we’ll look at the construction noun + particle + no.

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Mina-san,
Do you have any メル友? Have you ever met up with them in real life?
the illustration for this lesson was made by my friend, maniko. ![]()
she just started a japanese blog to show her drawings. if you like her stuff, please check out her blog and leave her a comment! she’d love to hear from you!
マニコさんの絵は素晴らしいです。
今回の話は本とに面白い。
相手はきっと男だと思う。
自分の性別を隠して女のふりをしてるかもしれない。
i know this is going to be a great series. and from the laughs in the banter, i think we’re off to a good start!
ericさん、i like your theory!
mina-san, if you use facebook, we also have a japanesepod101.com application, it updates your page with the most recent lessons.
今日のレッスンは面白かったです!私もこのシリーズはとても面白くて楽しくなると思いす。
ネットで恋人を探すのはちょっと…変だと思いますけど、”普通”なメール友がいて、SNSは実に楽しいですよ!Facebookもミクシィもやってミクシィの方がいいと思います。ミクシィに日記を書けますし、Facebookはアップリケーションがあまり面白くなくて、広告も多すぎますし、ややこしすぎますし。。。
Having Facebook friends seems pretty normal in the States, but generally you only e-mail your real friends. Here in Japan, I think it’s different. People actually send e-mails through their phones and seems like they don’t meet, or just meet for lunch. Or that’s just my impression. おもしろいですね。
Interesting stuff about Japanese social networking, but I have a question about the difficulty of lessons lately!
It seems like it would be useful to bring intermediate back? Now we have beginner which is super easy, lower intermediate which is also easy, and then upper intermediate which is super hard.
Are you guys planning to bring intermediate back from the dead?
HighBridgeさん、 thanks for the compliments! this is going to be a fantastic series!!
Philさん、 yes!
the reality is we have thousands of listeners at thousands of different levels, so… if we go too easy, the advanced listeners complain. if we go to difficult the newbies complain… so we’re always changing it up.
if you’re missing the intermediate level, i recommend (1) reviewing the old intermediates, (2) continue to follow the lower intermediates and (3) ganbatte on the upper intermediates.
by definition, “intermediate” means “really involved in the middle of things,” so it’s a very tricky space. the non-linear approach that we take for these levels means there is a high degree of fluctuation.
but at anyrate, intermediate will come and something else will go. right now we can only do 1 lesson a day. and there are only 7 days in the week…
however, if you’re looking for someting more focused on what you’d like to personally study, we can do that. FOR SURE.
if that’s the case, consider Premium Plus. then you can do private lessons with a customized curriculum. compared to the cost of taking private lessons or a university course, it’s peanuts. and since it’s one on one, it’s the fatest way to fluency!
Thanks for the suggestion Marky. Somehow the idea of going back over the old intermediates hadn’t occurred to me, so they’re all queued up to download now. All 85 of them! They should keep me busy for a good while.
Premium Plus sounds great but I don’t think I could really justify it! Right now I’ll be happy when I can watch an episode of ToLoveRu or Macross Frontier without subs and understand everything, which I can sometimes almost do…but they can also smack me down without mercy and leave me feeling like a total newbie. Oh and to be able to read the menus in restauraunts when I’m in Japan, but I suspect that one is going to take quite some time.
Oh and please, please keep the Sakura lessons coming!
>>but they can also smack me down without mercy
hahahahaha
i think we all know the feeling all too well!
we’ll do our best with sakura!! she’s awesome!
Wow! The picture is really nice! Who drew it?
Anyway, facebook is VERY POPULAR here in Singapore too!
でも、たけさんの友達はちょっと・・・・ね?どうして男の子だけですか。
Hey, JPOD people!
I really, really, really loved this lesson! (の nominalizer).
I still feel like a Beginner, but I am starting to have a few break throughs! Maybe I am finally going to a “higher level”, like Peter always says!
I had just been wondering about の as a nominalizer and now I KNOW it!! Thanks for all the examples and the discussion with Peter and Naomi! Finally, I GOT IT!
Category: Lower Intermediate Lessons (S3) |
Grammar: no, nominalizer, noun+particle+no | Function: talking about things | Topic: e mail friends, Facebook, friends, merutomo, Mixi, phone | Politeness Level: casual
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